The RIGHT way to Approach your HORSE

Horses are prey animals with a blind spot directly behind them, so never walk up from the rear. Approach from the side, ideally at a 45-degree angle from the shoulder, where they can see you clearly.

Speak in a calm, low voice as you get closer — let the horse know you’re there. Sudden movements or loud noises can startle them. 

Walk at a steady pace, no running.

Before making contact, let the horse smell the back of your hand. This is their version of a handshake. Once they accept you, you can gently stroke their neck or shoulder — avoid reaching straight for their face.

Watch their ears and body language. Ears forward means they’re interested; pinned back means they’re upset or angry. A swishing tail can signal irritation. If you see those signs, back off slowly and give them space.

Approaching in Different Environments

•  In a stall or close quarters: Move slowly and deliberately. Talk to the horse before you open the door. Many horses feel trapped in small spaces, so give them time to acknowledge you.

•  In a pasture or paddock: Stop at the gate and call them over instead of walking straight into their space. Approaching a loose horse from behind while they’re grazing is one of the most common ways people get kicked.

Always approach with confidence but respect. Horses read your energy — if you’re nervous, they’ll feel it. Stay calm, move deliberately, and treat every horse as an individual with its own comfort level.